I think that 99% of my readers are men and that the majority of you are frustrated because you can’t find a DWC Partner. It’s not like I wasn’t there before I met Aunt Kay. But 25 years of living the dream pushed those days out of my memory. Now I find myself there again and being basically in the Senior category realize the odds are stacked way against me. But I still fantasize that by some unexplainable circumstance a DWC-oriented woman will find me here (and then I’ll win the lottery and we’ll buy a boat).
I have checked out some of the adult spanking connection services and all I find is sleaze. Maybe there is something with the integrity the DWC had out there. But I haven’t seen it. To be clear, I’m not referring to Blogs where there are some great conversations going on. I am referring specifically to "spanking dating services".
Aunt Kay and I always wanted to help people connect with one another. We even wrote a book, “Finding a DWC Partner”. I recently reread it and frankly it’s kind of antiquated and quaint. But there were some good reminders. The most important was about making sure that there was genuine compatibility. Let’s face it. Even if you have a DWC lifestyle going, spanking takes up like .01 % of your activities. I can say without a shred of doubt that if Aunt Kay had not become the disciplinary Diva she was, I would still have been unbelievably fortunate to share my life with her.
For us guys who somehow got wired with the need for spanking, it’s really complicated. There’s a good possibility that my skinny little butt has seen all the spanking it’s going to. But I sure hope to at least find some good companionship. I guess the point I’m making is that companionship, partnership, nurturance, is what is most important.
I hope my musing is useful for some of you. I know you would rather find a titillating story.