My Blog title is a joke. I don’t recommend putting it off for tomorrow; especially if it a spanking you know you need.
If you have been reading my Blog entries you know that I have had an unusually interesting trip in terms of being able to participate in the Spanking Community. And that’s a really loose term. There is no “group”, per se, that makes up our community.
You are reading this Blog because YOU are a part of the Community. Whether you are a secret lurker or an over-the-top Shadow Lane player, it doesn’t matter. You want and need the same things as the rest of us.
That is why I am spending the time to share this important advice. And it’s bigger than spanking. It’s about life. But we’ll talk about spanking here.
I implore you to do whatever is necessary to get your needs met. And don’t count on accomplishing that if you never leave your computer. It takes real people to do real things! It often takes forcing yourself out of your comfort zone, maybe far out of it.
If you want specific advice, go look through the hundred pages on the Disciplinary Wives Club. It appears to be abandoned. But it’s still very rich with incredible information if you spend time on it.
I know it might hurt your pride to actually pay a professional. But if you are still fantasizing about that first adult spanking and have never had one, consider it. If you decide to try that; do your homework first. Learn whatever you possibly can before choosing someone. Someone who has no compassion or honest-to-goodness passion for spanking, will likely be a disappointment.
Most women Disciplinarians have a web site and you can get a good sense of where they are coming from. I would not recommend a fetish-oriented dominatrix. Their stock in trade is the cold-hearted, sadistic approach. I would rather you find someone who will spank you to tears with genuine compassion. I am serious about that.
The basic mechanics of paddling a bottom are ridiculously simple. Real satisfaction does not come from just paddle-meet-butt. In fact, you might feel empty and disappointed if that’s all there was to it.
It’s the relationship that is happening along with it that makes or breaks it.
Finally, on a personal note, I know from Blog Statistics that there are a good number of people who read this Blog. I sincerely thank you for taking the time to visit. I would like to encourage any of you who might have a thought to share it. I am one voice and what you have to say might be the thing others in our Community need to hear.
O.K. Do Good on Valentine’s Day tomorrow – for someone. If you have no one special in your life right now, look around for another person who may have even less going than you do and Do Good.