Sunday, November 27, 2016

The Braided Strap


This is my wife's absolute favorite "go to" when she feels like using a strap. She has so many other well- crafted leather items that I can't count them. But when she walks into the room and snaps that thing a few times I still get the shivers. As always, she knows too well what she is doing.

The couple of minutes of "visual enjoyment" I embarrassingly admit to, completely vanish the instant it is applied.

That said, I remain deeply grateful for her wisdom and guidance. Heaven knows I would be lost without it.

Friday, November 25, 2016

Thanksgiving Gratitude



Thanksgiving Gratitude

I hope all of you in the U.S. had a nice Thanksgiving. I know I did.

Before dinner we went around the table and everyone said what they were thankful for. It was very touching to hear the heartfelt statements of appreciation for something in everyone’s life.

When it was my turn, I said something about being thankful for friends and family (all true).

Then, a couple of moments after my turn, while people were still giving their statements, I whispered to my wife; “I am thankful for you being a real DWC wife and everything you do to make that happen.”

I was rewarded with a beautiful, loving smile.

Saturday, November 19, 2016

Loving My Lurkers


Considering the number of visits I get compared to the extremely few "Comments" and only 2 "Followers"; I have to Love My Lurkers. And I am O.K. with the way things are. I get tremendous satisfaction from seeing the number of readers that come by.

Would I like to hear from more of you? Of course. But, that's about me. And "Loving Our Lurkers" is about YOU.  Love Ya'll

Thursday, November 10, 2016

Cane Confusion



Cane Confusion

Any regular readers of this blog; if I can use the word “regular” with a straight face, since I don’t write regularly, know that my wife is fond of using the cane for spanking. I, on the other side of the equation, am not a big fan of that implement. And again referring to previous entries, I have explained that she seems to enjoy positioning me OUTSIDE on the porch to take care of business. Personally I think it is very rude. (As if anyone cares what I think when it’s spanking time).

A few months ago my wife had an accident and has needed to use one of those walking canes while she rehabilitates. During this time she has obviously been less mobile than normal and I am more than happy to do anything and everything that can make it easier for her manage.

One of her common requests is to please bring her a cane if it happens to be out of reach. After all these years together as a DWC couple, I still jump out of my skin when she asks for her cane. It’s kind of funny actually.

I had really thought that given her minimal mobility I would get a hiatus from her disciplinary regime. That turned out not to be the case. She explained that she had done too much work on me already to let things slip. So now I have to do even more to make it extremely convenient for her to exercise her prerogatives. That means clamping down on my own resistance and doing the best I can to make sure she doesn’t have to work at restraining me. So more than ever I am striving to avoid my instinctive escape moves. (I wish I were better at it. But I am better than I was).